We are both tired, stressed, sore, and overworked by the end of the day. Sounds to me like you're blaming women for the way women are made. Whether you want to do it is up to your own personal calculus, but I wilt in exhaustion knowing that this work is required to maintain a "decent relationship. The is also a billion dollar beauty industry aimed at women to make them feel bad about themselves so they will buy product. I want to make love every chance I get and he would rather lay around naked, snuggling, and just relaxing. Perhaps experiences run a bell curve distribution, with some outliers. Guys are increasingly every bit as body dysmorphic as women
So what happens when the woman realizes that her partner;s arousal and performance depends on porn fantasies--replaying, visualizing them in his mind--when he makes love with her?
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It's so important for her to turn off the way she downregulates the experience with her critical eye, her assumption for rejection. What a bunch of nonsense. The shame element is so true! I'm beginning to think that I will never find a partner whose sex drive is equal to mine. I can hear his voice and want to drag him to bed, don't put all women into neat little boxes. Laurie, Yes people can be manipulative.